Well, Hello there, October. Can I just say that I am glad that it is October? For most of the month of September, I thought that it was October. I kept seeing dates that were 10/whatever and I was thinking that I either had something coming up or had missed an important meeting or event. And, not to mention that September is a hard word for me to type fast. I misspell it, a lot.
Tuesday my students delivered their first set of speeches. I was so excited and anxious to hear them– I really had some high hopes. But, as soon as the first student started I was reminded that these are beginning speakers and this is their first time. The mistakes were plentiful. I wouldn’t be so upset by it if it wasn’t things that we had covered and discussed. They have a time frame of 5-6 minutes and the first student talked for over 11 minutes. I have never had that happen. I had decided that at 15 minutes I was going to stop him. Luckily, he stopped himself. This, and their uncertainty about what to do as the speaker and how to fill out the evaluation forms quickly negated my excitement.
I have to remind myself of all the things that they did well and remember that it is their first time. So, let’s take a positive approach. First, all 5 of the speaker’s that went on Tuesday made it through their entire speech without fainting or having a heart attack. Secondly, many of them voluntarily dressed up and used presentation aids– which wasn’t required, so technically they were going above and beyond. Third, all of them had their note cards and revised outlines.
I know that the speeches that the remaining students deliver today will be much stronger because they got to see their peers go and they can learn from their mistakes. Sometimes, I just have to remind myself that no one is perfect and the reason why they are taking this class is to become better public speakers.
Plus, I am just feeling stressed out because I got behind on my schoolwork– grading, preparing handouts to go to the printer’s, and prepping for lectures. And, one week from today I have the regional bartender flair competition that I will be competing in. And, (of course) one of the full-time teachers in my department is coming to do my annual teaching evaluation next Tuesday. So, I have a lot on my plate.
On Sunday, which was date night with the BF, we went on a short shopping trip. Last week we washed laundry and some mysterious red substance ended up ruining several of our clothing items. Some of them were saved after a $75 dry-cleaning bill, but others were not salvageable. I felt bad that my BF lost two dress shirts, so I wanted to go to J.C. Penney to see what they had on sale. I scored big time and we found two dress shirts for him–one with a tie, on clearance for a total of $15! I also bought myself something while we were there. I was telling my BF that I wanted a pair of cropped pants and I was blabbering about oxblood being the “it” color for Fall. And then we came across these pants. He was a little unsure of them, but I knew that they were winners.
I liked these pants and was excited to wear my new ruffled printed tank top that I purchased from Target a while back. At the time I didn’t have burgundy pants so I had planned on wearing them with black pants and a royal blue cardigan or a magenta button-up shirt. But, once I added these pants to my wardrobe I saw an entirely different option for this tank top.
What do you think? Do you find yourself following certain trends? Did you go crazy for orange this Spring/Summer because of Pantone? I’d love to hear your thoughts.
- How To Give Stronger Constructive Feedback to Presenters (alexrister1.wordpress.com)
- 4 Qualities of Amazing Public Speakers (thedailymuse.com)
- 6 Secrets to Bolster Your Public Speaking (schooledforlife.com)
- The single biggest mistake most public speakers make most often (publicwords.typepad.com)
- How To Become a Better Public Speaker (jeffzelaya.com)