Last night was not everything that I hoped it would be. It started out o.k., but ended on a slightly sour note. Let me explain. I woke up feeling like a touch of the flu was coming on. So, I made myself an Emergen-C cocktail (no booze!), and spent most of the day on the couch trying to get over that general feeling of lethargy. I read the newest edition of Cosmopolitan, caught up on an episode of Rookie Blue, and petted my adorable orange cat, Cosmo.
Eventually, it was time to shower and get ready for school. After I showered I did take a few minutes to compose some outfits for the coming week– expect lots of Fall-ish colors. Then, I got ready for class, packed my lunch, and took my outfit photo’s for the day before I headed off to campus.
Once on campus, I went into the adjunct faculty room where I hold my “office hours.” The problem with this is that this room is absolutely freezing. Not exactly what I needed when I wasn’t already feeling too hot. I made a quiz for next week and reviewed my notes for the evening and then I decided that it was just too uncomfortable in there. I took my lunch bag and ate my dinner outside. It was much more comfortable out there. After a while I packed up all my stuff and headed down to my classroom. There was a class in there before me, so I didn’t get the chance to go in and set up as much as I would have liked.
In the ten minutes before class began, a few of my students were already in the room. I usually announce to them that “we are having a quiz, and even though class hasn’t started now is a great time to ask any questions that you may have about the quiz, the syllabus, or class in general.” But, they usually never ask any questions. They don’t even usually talk to each other. It’s very quiet and awkward at times. One student, whom I will call, Eric asked me “if I like quiet before class began?” I shook my head “no. I don’t care if you talk. It’s a public speaking class.” And still, no one talked.
Once class actually began, I again announced that if anyone had any questions about last week’s material that I would be happy to answer them before the quiz.
No one talked.
Eric asked a general question, “Are we doing well on the quizzes as a group?” It was a good question. To which I responded, “Some people do very well, 9’s and 10’s. Some people do not: 3’s and 4’s. But, everyone seems to be consistent with themselves. The students getting 5’s and 6’s get the same score nearly every time.” I went on to explain to the students that the quizzes are not meant to be a torture device, but a way to measure whether they are grasping the material, or not. And they can use them as a barometer. If they are not getting the scores that they want they need to ask themselves, why not?
Are they reading the chapters, carefully? Are they coming to class and taking good notes? Are they asking for clarification on terms and concepts that they may not understand? Are they reviewing the material and studying for the quiz? Are they focusing on the right material from the chapter– can they identify the most important material or do they focus on the lesser important content? And lastly, is there something that they need me to do differently?
No one talked.
And then I handed out their quiz. After I collected the quiz I lectured over chapter 3: finding resource material. After chapter 3, I started on chapter 4: identifying and evaluating supporting material but we didn’t get to finish the chapter. We got about 3/4 of the way through. I always seem to be running out of time in the class. Truth be told, I would like to forgo the quizzes because they take up valuable class time! There is so much more that I would like to give to them in the classroom, rather than taking time away for quizzes. Perhaps I will make their next quiz a “take-home” quiz.
Back to my story. After class was over, one of my students informed me that he would have to miss Thursday’s class due to a family matter. He asked if he could take the quiz early. I explained to him that there is no make-up work, that you have to take the quiz at the time that it is given. He made some good points, that he wanted to put himself at a disadvantage and take the quiz early, not late. He also stated that he didn’t think that he should be punished for having to miss class for a family issue.
I tried to explain to him that regardless of whether he wanted to take the quiz early or late it would be at a different time than the rest of the group, and I would have to make that an option for all students and it just gets too difficult to do that and be fair. I also tried to explain to him that it’s not meant to punish him, that it isn’t a policy that is just for him, but that it is for everyone. And, I can not play judge and jury on whether one student has to miss class for a good reason or someone else has to miss class for a bad reason. So, we have the blanket policy that will cover all events. But, I do appreciate that he genuinely cares about his grade and having to miss class. But, I think that he is putting too much emphasis on one 10 point quiz, when there are over 1,000 points for the whole course. One missed quiz will not cause him to fail the class.
He kept going on, even trying to jokingly offer me money, and he finally gave up. At that point, Eric said to me, “I want to talk, but I feel like you will be mad at me. You seem very strict.”
I assured him that I would not be mad at him, that I want the students to talk and participate. I also added that I am strict, but I am also a pretty easy-going person. To which the other student replied, “So you should let me take the quiz!”
“I said I was easy-going, I didn’t say that I was a push over.” And then we had to part ways.
This whole exchange makes me feel a little deflated. First of all, I want my students to take me and the class seriously– I want them to put in the time and effort that this class requires and not try to cut corners. The quizzes are designed to make sure that they are reading the material and coming to class prepared. And, if they don’t there is the consequence of doing poorly on the quiz. But, I do want them to feel comfortable talking and answering questions and letting their personalities come through. I have to find more ways to engage them in the classroom.
I always just feel this pressure to stand up in the classroom and lecture over the material using Powerpoint. I do hope that playing Pictionary with them on Thursday will help break the stigma. I have been wanting to incorporate this for a few classes now, but we keep running out of time. Pictionary is one way that I help them meet and interact with some of their classmates, and a way that I get them up to the front of the room without focusing on being up there in front of everyone. It is a very helpful tool in beginning to eliminate speech anxiety.
I also feel that I can help achieve this goal with my clothing choices. Maybe instead of focusing on being professional and all business-like, I need to focus a little more on outfits that make me seem more accessible. For me, I think that translates into wearing pants and flats. And, adding in accessories with more personality. I think that if I start to show them more of my personality they will start to show me more of their personality. At least it’s worth a try, right?
Sorry for the long story, but that comes from the writer in me! But, without further ado, here is the outfit that I wore last night:
This is the big blog debut of my booties! I purchased them about a month ago, and after breaking them in by wearing them around the house, I wore them to a meeting on campus. The first time that I wore them, it was only for a few hours but my feet were very sore. I was very upset. These booties are by Antonio Melani and cost $100. This is the most that I have ever spent on a pair of shoes, but I was looking at them as an investment piece. They are made from leather– which is a big plus in my book. After wearing them to teach in last night, I have to say that they were more comfortable than the first time that I wore them, but I am still not convinced that they were worth the major investment. Only time will tell, I guess.
I wasn’t as comfortable in this outfit as I would have liked to be. First, without some sort of cinching around the middle, this dress is waaaaay too 70’s mod/ maternity looking. I thought that just the blazer would be enough, but I was a little too warm in it, so I knew that at one point I would want to take it off. I took the fabric belt from the blazer and tied it around my waist so that the dress would look o.k. with or without the blazer. The other reason why I was a little uncomfortable was because of the length of the dress. It is longer than fingertips, but it still feels so short! Even paired with the dark tights I felt like I was showing a lot of leg. And it just made me feel a little self-conscious. I think that this dress is better with an opaque tight or even leggings.
What do you think? Are there outfits that are “appropriate” by all the standards and rules, but just leave you feeling uncomfortable? Do you have better days when you feel completely comfortable in what you are wearing? Maybe it was because of the impending sickness, the outfit, or a combination of the two that came across to my student that I would be mad if he talked. Whatever the reason for that perception, I want to figure it out and change it, fast!
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